I'm Alexandra Thornton
Life & Career Coach &
Champion for Humanity
Everyday I feel happy, motivated, creative, passionate, playful, inspired, connected, loved, free and fulfilled!
I feel thoroughly spoiled and incredibly grateful for this deep joy...
but it wasn't always this way.
For a long time in my life, I was deeply unhappy.
I felt stressed, worthless, broken, unimportant, trapped, alone and I didn't like the woman I had become.
I was overweight, unmotivated and had no energy.
At work, I felt like I was doing the bare minimum to get through to 5pm, and as soon as I got home, I would open a bottle of wine!
My relationships were no better. In fact they were forced. I was always trying to be the girl they wanted me to be (why would they love the real me?), but obviously that was all a charade. We would either break up or I would push them away thinking someone else might finally make me happy. I ended up divorced at 33 and completely miserable because all my friends seemed to be happily married and having babies and I was alone, again!
Things got so bad, I was diagnosed with depression, anxiety and a stress-related autoimmune disease.
I felt like I had no control of my life.
I used to ask myself...
What is wrong with me?
Why do I feel like this? Why can't I be happy like my friends? What am I doing wrong? Why am I not good enough?
These fears went so deep; I ended up completely breaking down.
But...as they say...when you hit rock bottom, there is only one way to go and that's UP!
My Doctor suggested therapy and after some resistance, I gave in.
Best decision of my life!
I will forever be grateful to my therapist; he was a genius of a man and I could rave about him for pages and pages!
He is with the Angels now and I miss him greatly, but to cut a long(ish) story short, he helped me root out deep traumas, release suppressed emotions and finally, I allowed myself to FEEL.
He started me off on my exquisitely beautiful journey of transformation and I will never forget him or his guidance.
It turned out that for years, I had buried my emotions to try and "Be Happy".
I had been told by the media, my teachers, my friends, my family (and myself!) that this was The Goal!
Everyone had my best interests at heart I know and there is no blame laid here, but I learned this lesson so well, that I had somehow put my own feelings, needs and desires to one side to be who I thought I should be. I completely ran with these beliefs and they spilled over into my career, my relationships and throughout my whole life.
I buried my needs, dreams and passions so much that I no longer knew what I felt, what I wanted or who I really was!
I was so completely out of whack with me and what made me, ME - that I felt out of control and lost (and all the other emotions I named above!).
I cry for that little girl (and woman!) now.
So what changed?
After my therapy, I dabbled with self-help for years. In truth, I didn't really move on from the open doorway that my therapist had showed me.
Old habits die hard, right?
But one day, I literally started doing everything I had always wanted to do but had put off; mindfulness, meditating, yoga, reading, thinking, connecting.
And I got a Coach.
I connected with my inner child and we let go of tonnes of pain; I unearthed all the negative inner beliefs that were holding me back and flipped them to provide support, compassion and confidence; I figured out my Purpose in this life; I started listening to my intuition; and finally I found my Voice.
I put all this into motion when I handed in my notice at work and set up my own Business.
I became the Managing Director of My Life!
And I've never looked back.
I am now speaking up for myself, enjoying massive success, loving myself and I finally value Me for Me!
I am also a Woman infatuated with helping women every day from a place of love and spiritual peace.
I am a Woman fighting for Women; for their Divine Right to Transform, Be Valued, be 100% Themselves, have the Career they deserve and Be Free.
And I am a Coach who can help you do exactly what I did.
If you're feeling anything like I was - please, don't tell yourself that is all your life can be!
Please don't feel trapped anymore!
Please don't feel sad, lost and out of control anymore!
Because you deserve to be Happy - but Happy Your Way!
You deserve to be Valued, Free, Motivated, In Love, Energised, Fulfilled and More!
You deserve it All.
I can help. I have done it myself. I've broken free.
And I'll let you into a secret - it's not all tears and heartache. It is sometimes true Divine Enlightenment and you deserve that too.
Come join me.
Because we've got some life changing to do.